I hate my height
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@Jack under 5'8 at over 18 means your life is over, so not 6' exactly. at 5'8 you still have some chances, though barely any, and the humiliation still happens
@xtra ngl this perspective just brings people down. Life is not ‘over’ because you are a few inches shorter than other people
. Life is more complex than just getting girls bro. Yes I agree there’s definetely benefits to being taller, but it’s become such a over exaggerated problem. I promise you the right girl for you will not be constantly thinking about how tall you are in relation to other men. Your future wife should hopefully be more emotionally mature than that. If anything you could think of it as a blessing that most girls you talk to are probably not dating you because your spine and femur is a few centimetres longer. Ultimately just don’t stress and live life the way that makes you happiest and the rest will work itself out. Go do something interesting, travel the world, experience cool things, live to your fullest. 
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@xtra ngl this perspective just brings people down. Life is not ‘over’ because you are a few inches shorter than other people
. Life is more complex than just getting girls bro. Yes I agree there’s definetely benefits to being taller, but it’s become such a over exaggerated problem. I promise you the right girl for you will not be constantly thinking about how tall you are in relation to other men. Your future wife should hopefully be more emotionally mature than that. If anything you could think of it as a blessing that most girls you talk to are probably not dating you because your spine and femur is a few centimetres longer. Ultimately just don’t stress and live life the way that makes you happiest and the rest will work itself out. Go do something interesting, travel the world, experience cool things, live to your fullest. @Jack I agree, the only human on this forum who spreads good feelings is being insulted, great job. And luckily its not over in the slightest because I found the most loving woman ever who mogs all the future hook ups (not even proper relations) to the chinese make up factories from which the make up comes with which these hook ups try to imitate a fraction of my womans beauty. you all eat raw meat yet youre still depressed and brain washed, its so easy to tell by the way you speak, jack doesnt speak the way the rest speaks
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Im 17 in 3 days and 175cm is it over?
@Adrian-Sieczko commit
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@xtra ngl this perspective just brings people down. Life is not ‘over’ because you are a few inches shorter than other people
. Life is more complex than just getting girls bro. Yes I agree there’s definetely benefits to being taller, but it’s become such a over exaggerated problem. I promise you the right girl for you will not be constantly thinking about how tall you are in relation to other men. Your future wife should hopefully be more emotionally mature than that. If anything you could think of it as a blessing that most girls you talk to are probably not dating you because your spine and femur is a few centimetres longer. Ultimately just don’t stress and live life the way that makes you happiest and the rest will work itself out. Go do something interesting, travel the world, experience cool things, live to your fullest. @Jack I agree with you for the most part, but my brain isn't wired that way. the thing thst brings me the most joy is how everyone perceives me, not just one person.. though, i suppose if that one person was completely dedicated to me i would only dedicate myself to them. I'm quite insecure so if i were to get in a relationship it would be quite skewed.
back to my original point ; the reason i want to be tall isn't to get one girl, it's so i can actually be pursued and desired by women, envied by men, and actually impactful. I'm short and unattractive so it's unlucky for me i wont get that.
(under 21 though, let's just hope my growth plates arent closed)i can't remember much of what you said after that. this commenting thing needs to be changed.
Do not go gentle into that good night
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@Jack I agree with you for the most part, but my brain isn't wired that way. the thing thst brings me the most joy is how everyone perceives me, not just one person.. though, i suppose if that one person was completely dedicated to me i would only dedicate myself to them. I'm quite insecure so if i were to get in a relationship it would be quite skewed.
back to my original point ; the reason i want to be tall isn't to get one girl, it's so i can actually be pursued and desired by women, envied by men, and actually impactful. I'm short and unattractive so it's unlucky for me i wont get that.
(under 21 though, let's just hope my growth plates arent closed)i can't remember much of what you said after that. this commenting thing needs to be changed.
I see your point of view. We have different values than one another which is why there is a disparity in our opinion on the topic. I completely understand the desire to be taller, I'm sure everyone can. I think one of the most important skills to learn in life is acceptance, especially when it's something out of your control and directly effects you and causes you pain. If you asked a random group of people if they wanted to be taller, more attractive, etc, they would all say yes. But since it's pretty unattainable (especially if you are older than 20 years old) then the best course of action would be to accept the cards you've been dealt. Life is too short to sulk over things out of your control.
I've learned over the past couple years that happiness is the only thing that truly matters in this life. Take a step back and reconsider what will make you happier in the long term. I bet you the people not stressing over their height or looks will be better off (happiness wise) than the latter.
I aspire to have a life fulfilling, meaningful, and exciting as possible. I recommend everyone does the same.
If anyone wants to have a chat, send me a message
"Skin is like a solar panel for the brain." - Dr Jack Kruse
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I see your point of view. We have different values than one another which is why there is a disparity in our opinion on the topic. I completely understand the desire to be taller, I'm sure everyone can. I think one of the most important skills to learn in life is acceptance, especially when it's something out of your control and directly effects you and causes you pain. If you asked a random group of people if they wanted to be taller, more attractive, etc, they would all say yes. But since it's pretty unattainable (especially if you are older than 20 years old) then the best course of action would be to accept the cards you've been dealt. Life is too short to sulk over things out of your control.
I've learned over the past couple years that happiness is the only thing that truly matters in this life. Take a step back and reconsider what will make you happier in the long term. I bet you the people not stressing over their height or looks will be better off (happiness wise) than the latter.
I aspire to have a life fulfilling, meaningful, and exciting as possible. I recommend everyone does the same.
If anyone wants to have a chat, send me a message
@Jack
Now I aspire to live like the truly primitive man.I was so busy with looks in 2022-23 and later I realized: "modern relationships might revolve much more around looks, but only retards want to live a modern life with modern relationships. I can be much smarter than those poeple." That thinking also made me start digging deeper into the primal diet. Great choice has been for me. I feel much happier. Life truly is driven by a vital force, and with that comes happiness. The more truly happy you are (not faking happiness like ppl that go the gym etc.), the more you are living life to it's fullest. And I still believe the truly wild man is the happiest, because they live the real life (that consists of no beliefs, delusion, but only of the truth that was always in us, that we should live and do what is innate to us) the most.
"Doctors" don't know anything about nutrition and diet. Don't listen to them. Enjoy consuming raw!!!
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@Jack
Now I aspire to live like the truly primitive man.I was so busy with looks in 2022-23 and later I realized: "modern relationships might revolve much more around looks, but only retards want to live a modern life with modern relationships. I can be much smarter than those poeple." That thinking also made me start digging deeper into the primal diet. Great choice has been for me. I feel much happier. Life truly is driven by a vital force, and with that comes happiness. The more truly happy you are (not faking happiness like ppl that go the gym etc.), the more you are living life to it's fullest. And I still believe the truly wild man is the happiest, because they live the real life (that consists of no beliefs, delusion, but only of the truth that was always in us, that we should live and do what is innate to us) the most.
genuinely beautiful read. go write a philosophical book or something. Too beautiful to only be shared with a niche forum on the corner of the internet.
"Skin is like a solar panel for the brain." - Dr Jack Kruse
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genuinely beautiful read. go write a philosophical book or something. Too beautiful to only be shared with a niche forum on the corner of the internet.
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Im 17 in 3 days and 175cm is it over?
@Adrian-Sieczko
Im 170cm at 17 it could be worse, but I started caring less. Caring less made me more happy and less stressed. Caring about how others see you means you are delusional.It's not over, become a vitalism blud. Enjoy life, its summer.
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@Jack under 5'8 at over 18 means your life is over, so not 6' exactly. at 5'8 you still have some chances, though barely any, and the humiliation still happens
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