There is simply no better feeling than truly being yourself in front of a girl that understands you. Everything else is bullshit, forced, synthetic. Once you meet a girl like this, everything comes naturally. You both will naturally want to have kids, and she will naturally trust you and follow your lead in life. But the big 'if' is finding a girl with all of these qualities. I think the best way to do this is be yourself unapologetically and then a girl that understands you and isn't absorbed in modernity will come your way.