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@swansven The thing is, it’s outside the norm, and most people will react strongly at first. You’ll have a much better chance meeting someone who’s already open-minded about alternative health or natural living instead of trying to change someone’s perspective from the ground up. And don’t make it your whole identity, you can show how important and passionate it is to you, without looking like you’re forcefully imposing your views on her. If you show up as confident, grounded, and clearly healthy, that will speak louder than any explanation, and it’ll naturally draw in someone who’s curious and open rather than critical, then she’ll be able to be knowledgeable about you and you’re life style
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From my experience it's damn impossible to find women to convert, so you will probably need to find someone who got here themselves, which may be equally as impossible. Does anyone have any helpful info on finding a primal woman?
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@Priyana Good points, but I find that a lot of women who are open to alternative health are vegans haha, their version of alternative health is eating random flowers and herbs and stuff of that sort
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I suggest you make some money, yes you have to slave away, but for a good cause -> when you have financial comfort you can go to a third world country like Latin American countries or African countries. When you arrive there you can go to random villages in the middle of nowhere and look for a tall woman that looks like a supermodel who grew up on raw milk and raw meat (obiously follow your looks criterias in a partner). and because your good looking and now have some money (you are rich to them) she will wanna be with you. And your children drink raw milk and eat raw meat all day and they become 6'7 supermodels. You can go to Ethiopia for example, its more normal there to eat raw meat and you can easily find a girl or convince a girl to eat naturally. I suggest you look for not only a woman who eats raw meat, but also grew up eating raw meat. You probably live in USA or Europe rn. Stop wasting your time there. I looked at a video of a guy filming walking through a market in africa and I saw so many people there that could be models in the west lol. It's pretty much impossible in the west so what are you waiting for bro.
Enjoy the raw milk and get healthy!
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I suggest you make some money, yes you have to slave away, but for a good cause -> when you have financial comfort you can go to a third world country like Latin American countries or African countries. When you arrive there you can go to random villages in the middle of nowhere and look for a tall woman that looks like a supermodel who grew up on raw milk and raw meat (obiously follow your looks criterias in a partner). and because your good looking and now have some money (you are rich to them) she will wanna be with you. And your children drink raw milk and eat raw meat all day and they become 6'7 supermodels. You can go to Ethiopia for example, its more normal there to eat raw meat and you can easily find a girl or convince a girl to eat naturally. I suggest you look for not only a woman who eats raw meat, but also grew up eating raw meat. You probably live in USA or Europe rn. Stop wasting your time there. I looked at a video of a guy filming walking through a market in africa and I saw so many people there that could be models in the west lol. It's pretty much impossible in the west so what are you waiting for bro.
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Look at the youtuber filming who grew up eating slop in England vs the butcher selling all the meat and the organs. His smile is so wide and beautiful. Skip to 12:40 https://youtu.be/D3zb3zleZds?si=NFTgDnC2YVtw0nAr
Enjoy the raw milk and get healthy!
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Look at the youtuber filming who grew up eating slop in England vs the butcher selling all the meat and the organs. His smile is so wide and beautiful. Skip to 12:40 https://youtu.be/D3zb3zleZds?si=NFTgDnC2YVtw0nAr
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@zygomidus yeah the butchers are beautiful and happy humans
@Rabbi Maybe you can relate to this as well... When I am outside in my city, I sometimes see young and middle aged african men who grew up somewhat naturally and migrated to europe. Some of them are quite developed: their cheekbones especially are striking and prominent, their maxilla is wide and projected, and their mandible is forwardly grown. They aren't as developed as the butcher you saw but they atleast look somewhat like proper men. The women look good too. I like seeing them from time to time. It gives me hope, cause someday I'll be able to get out of my country and find a tall girl that is atleast as biologically developed as the africans I see and will not only accept what I eat, but see it as normal. I can find some one who appreciates me.
Enjoy the raw milk and get healthy!
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@Rabbi Maybe you can relate to this as well... When I am outside in my city, I sometimes see young and middle aged african men who grew up somewhat naturally and migrated to europe. Some of them are quite developed: their cheekbones especially are striking and prominent, their maxilla is wide and projected, and their mandible is forwardly grown. They aren't as developed as the butcher you saw but they atleast look somewhat like proper men. The women look good too. I like seeing them from time to time. It gives me hope, cause someday I'll be able to get out of my country and find a tall girl that is atleast as biologically developed as the africans I see and will not only accept what I eat, but see it as normal. I can find some one who appreciates me.
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Hey , primal girly here. I’m not gonna lie , it will almost be impossible to find a primal girl in real life. The only way I found girls in this community was through social medias. I was watching insta reels about primal diet and everything and when I opened the comments , I saw a comment and on the pfp , it was a girl. I first thought it was a fake account and I DMed her , told her about how happy I was to finally meet a primal girl and she told me she had the same feelings. We added each other on snap, and she added me in a primal groupchat. In this gc , there are a few girls , and they’re the only primal girls I know. Also , the girl I just told you about met her primal bf on social medias and now they’re in a long distance relationship but are going to live together. So if you can’t afford going to Africa or Thailand , I would recommand you looking for a girl on social medias. Maybe look at primal accounts’ followers on Instagram
️. Last thing : don’t try to convert normies because it’s almost impossible. Just answer people’s questions if they have some. Be patient and good luck ! -
Hey , primal girly here. I’m not gonna lie , it will almost be impossible to find a primal girl in real life. The only way I found girls in this community was through social medias. I was watching insta reels about primal diet and everything and when I opened the comments , I saw a comment and on the pfp , it was a girl. I first thought it was a fake account and I DMed her , told her about how happy I was to finally meet a primal girl and she told me she had the same feelings. We added each other on snap, and she added me in a primal groupchat. In this gc , there are a few girls , and they’re the only primal girls I know. Also , the girl I just told you about met her primal bf on social medias and now they’re in a long distance relationship but are going to live together. So if you can’t afford going to Africa or Thailand , I would recommand you looking for a girl on social medias. Maybe look at primal accounts’ followers on Instagram
️. Last thing : don’t try to convert normies because it’s almost impossible. Just answer people’s questions if they have some. Be patient and good luck ! -
Reading through this forum, as a woman (18yo) on raw primal, wanna say that @Jack knows what he’s talking bout. I also have some input and advice, as a girl who has been open minded and experienced radical change, all for health.
Stop all the doomer shit about it being impossible. I know it feels impossible, especially when you’re reminded everyday about how brainwashed and close minded everyone around you is. When you feel like an outlier, and cannot reach and teach your family and friends, of course you’re gonna feel hopeless and lonely, but please don’t let those feelings of isolation and difference convince you that there isn’t anyone for you. I am living proof that raw primal girls/woman exist, and, despite being convinced I was the only one in my country, I have found several others. It’s not completely rare, people are awakening
I firstly suggest, to find a raw primal woman, you have to be open minded, as you’d want her to be. If you’re insanely close minded and dogmatic about this lifestyle, as well as fearful that you’ll never find the one, you’re not gonna get anywhere, you’ll only attract what you don’t want.
I’ve also noticed that a lot of raw primal dudes have fucked up views and standards about women, like Epstein level, “I’ve gotta find a super young, perfect stacy, virgin wife, who will completely align with my beliefs and do whatever I say, and let me own her and make her my baby machine,” typa shit. That’s very unrealistic and truly corrupt, women are humans who deserve their own agency, opinions and values, that are just as important as your own.
(if you ever do find a girl who subscribes to that role, you’ll quickly find she either has absolutely no sense of self and personality, or rather, she’s a mossad agent. Up to you if you can live with that
)So if that even slightly reflects your true desires, I’d suggest you evaluate where that comes from within you. And, before you say, “but it’s naytrull” or some goatis bs, evidence suggests that, in our hunter gatherer era, societal structure was matriarchal and relationships were non-monogamous. Non-monogamous through woman having babies with multiple men, as, if you think about it, that would optimise the survival of her children, so they could all be protected and fathered by many.
I do not believe in the same relationship style today. Humans aren’t just baby making flesh vessels who need to survive, but rather souls who unite, to love, as both perfect matches and opposites. Religious, spiritual, or not, relationships are unarguably, a bridge to the divine, an experience of life that transcends the mundane.
To find your match, I believe you need to focus on being an independent and whole unit, aka self actualising and Individualising to an extent. When you rely on finding another to make you feel whole, you’re gonna keep going thru samsara buddy. Stop searching, find the love within you and within your life, then love will naturally find you. Same goes with authenticity and finding the right person for you, you gotta be it before you find it.
Yeah this became a lot deeper than expected, but It just feels right to express and say this all. I am speaking from a place that has seen how the raw primal and incel community can, in some instances, become one in the same. Take what resonates and leave what doesn’t, but don’t let yourself become another pessimistic woman hating chud just because you feel lost and lonely.
Some last things I wanna say, is that your habits have the ability to inspire another, don’t think that just because your girlfriend/romantic interests diet is unhealthy or unaligned with yours, that nothing can be done. My ex boyfriend took me from hating ruminant meat one day, to eating a steak everyday following. Just from him encouraging me to try it, without any pressure or expectation.
So don’t approach it from the “I’m gonna change or convince her”, rather, be the blueprint and let your habits and visible health benefits lead the way first. While also taking small actions, like encouraging her try raw meat or sashimi, or even blue rare steak (bonus points if this is at a fancy dinner you paid for).
I also wanna suggest looking into Duru Bilimlier, she’s introduced many woman to the diet through her social media and community. Framing it as a way to look gorgeous and slim, and experience healing from all sorts of health issues that women suffer from. There are many other influencers who are woman or work with woman, all this kind of content could be shared with your girlfriend, especially if she struggles with the mentioned health issues. Be careful tho as a lot of it is framed as a way to lose weight and increase beauty, you don’t want to suggest you think she needs that.
Hope this spiel is of some value. It’s definitely very valid to want a relationship with another healthy person, that’s for sure a standard of my own, just don’t let it get you too dogmatic and strict. Ultimately, relationships are about love and connection, the addition of beauty and enjoyment to your life, rather than the only source of it. So focus on being healthy, happy and enjoying your life, and you will find someone to join you in that 🫶
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@Elina Thats so great to hear. Interesting story. You definitely have experience so its valuable to know!
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Reading through this forum, as a woman (18yo) on raw primal, wanna say that @Jack knows what he’s talking bout. I also have some input and advice, as a girl who has been open minded and experienced radical change, all for health.
Stop all the doomer shit about it being impossible. I know it feels impossible, especially when you’re reminded everyday about how brainwashed and close minded everyone around you is. When you feel like an outlier, and cannot reach and teach your family and friends, of course you’re gonna feel hopeless and lonely, but please don’t let those feelings of isolation and difference convince you that there isn’t anyone for you. I am living proof that raw primal girls/woman exist, and, despite being convinced I was the only one in my country, I have found several others. It’s not completely rare, people are awakening
I firstly suggest, to find a raw primal woman, you have to be open minded, as you’d want her to be. If you’re insanely close minded and dogmatic about this lifestyle, as well as fearful that you’ll never find the one, you’re not gonna get anywhere, you’ll only attract what you don’t want.
I’ve also noticed that a lot of raw primal dudes have fucked up views and standards about women, like Epstein level, “I’ve gotta find a super young, perfect stacy, virgin wife, who will completely align with my beliefs and do whatever I say, and let me own her and make her my baby machine,” typa shit. That’s very unrealistic and truly corrupt, women are humans who deserve their own agency, opinions and values, that are just as important as your own.
(if you ever do find a girl who subscribes to that role, you’ll quickly find she either has absolutely no sense of self and personality, or rather, she’s a mossad agent. Up to you if you can live with that
)So if that even slightly reflects your true desires, I’d suggest you evaluate where that comes from within you. And, before you say, “but it’s naytrull” or some goatis bs, evidence suggests that, in our hunter gatherer era, societal structure was matriarchal and relationships were non-monogamous. Non-monogamous through woman having babies with multiple men, as, if you think about it, that would optimise the survival of her children, so they could all be protected and fathered by many.
I do not believe in the same relationship style today. Humans aren’t just baby making flesh vessels who need to survive, but rather souls who unite, to love, as both perfect matches and opposites. Religious, spiritual, or not, relationships are unarguably, a bridge to the divine, an experience of life that transcends the mundane.
To find your match, I believe you need to focus on being an independent and whole unit, aka self actualising and Individualising to an extent. When you rely on finding another to make you feel whole, you’re gonna keep going thru samsara buddy. Stop searching, find the love within you and within your life, then love will naturally find you. Same goes with authenticity and finding the right person for you, you gotta be it before you find it.
Yeah this became a lot deeper than expected, but It just feels right to express and say this all. I am speaking from a place that has seen how the raw primal and incel community can, in some instances, become one in the same. Take what resonates and leave what doesn’t, but don’t let yourself become another pessimistic woman hating chud just because you feel lost and lonely.
Some last things I wanna say, is that your habits have the ability to inspire another, don’t think that just because your girlfriend/romantic interests diet is unhealthy or unaligned with yours, that nothing can be done. My ex boyfriend took me from hating ruminant meat one day, to eating a steak everyday following. Just from him encouraging me to try it, without any pressure or expectation.
So don’t approach it from the “I’m gonna change or convince her”, rather, be the blueprint and let your habits and visible health benefits lead the way first. While also taking small actions, like encouraging her try raw meat or sashimi, or even blue rare steak (bonus points if this is at a fancy dinner you paid for).
I also wanna suggest looking into Duru Bilimlier, she’s introduced many woman to the diet through her social media and community. Framing it as a way to look gorgeous and slim, and experience healing from all sorts of health issues that women suffer from. There are many other influencers who are woman or work with woman, all this kind of content could be shared with your girlfriend, especially if she struggles with the mentioned health issues. Be careful tho as a lot of it is framed as a way to lose weight and increase beauty, you don’t want to suggest you think she needs that.
Hope this spiel is of some value. It’s definitely very valid to want a relationship with another healthy person, that’s for sure a standard of my own, just don’t let it get you too dogmatic and strict. Ultimately, relationships are about love and connection, the addition of beauty and enjoyment to your life, rather than the only source of it. So focus on being healthy, happy and enjoying your life, and you will find someone to join you in that 🫶
@Rhiannon Thanks for the long post, I appreciate reading it.
I haven't really commented my opinion on this so I will.
Life is relatively short, there is no time to find the perfect girl forever.
Social media is good yeah as you gather attention, one example is rawmarcus, he has girls loving him on tiktok even tho he looks average attractive.
I like more of the hippie girls as they are very positive and loving, they eat basic normie diet as youngish girls are still full of life but as girls age they become less and less energetic and happy and obviously less attractive and less life-force pretty quickly after 18-20 if they don't follow rawprimal. It hasn't become unbearable to be with them yet but it might. The basic normie girls are unbearable and I would never want to speak to them, they are so annoying. (I don't want to over-generalize but especially the bimbos, which huge slice of girls are)
I have got girls to eat raw liver with me, but only works if she likes me like crazy.
Idk if I am arrogant or what but I think I could change a girl to eat raw primal lol.
But if I want to be in long-term relationship the girl should be as healthy (eating rawprimal) as possible of course so the relationship wont turn toxic (unhealthy behavior) long-term.
I am networking rn going to more niche communities etc to find the girls I want. hehe. Maybe I will find some girls who would be open to try rawprimal in those places.
Idk If i were girl I would find it attractive if a guy drinks blood.
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Hey , primal girly here. I’m not gonna lie , it will almost be impossible to find a primal girl in real life. The only way I found girls in this community was through social medias. I was watching insta reels about primal diet and everything and when I opened the comments , I saw a comment and on the pfp , it was a girl. I first thought it was a fake account and I DMed her , told her about how happy I was to finally meet a primal girl and she told me she had the same feelings. We added each other on snap, and she added me in a primal groupchat. In this gc , there are a few girls , and they’re the only primal girls I know. Also , the girl I just told you about met her primal bf on social medias and now they’re in a long distance relationship but are going to live together. So if you can’t afford going to Africa or Thailand , I would recommand you looking for a girl on social medias. Maybe look at primal accounts’ followers on Instagram
️. Last thing : don’t try to convert normies because it’s almost impossible. Just answer people’s questions if they have some. Be patient and good luck ! -
Reading through this forum, as a woman (18yo) on raw primal, wanna say that @Jack knows what he’s talking bout. I also have some input and advice, as a girl who has been open minded and experienced radical change, all for health.
Stop all the doomer shit about it being impossible. I know it feels impossible, especially when you’re reminded everyday about how brainwashed and close minded everyone around you is. When you feel like an outlier, and cannot reach and teach your family and friends, of course you’re gonna feel hopeless and lonely, but please don’t let those feelings of isolation and difference convince you that there isn’t anyone for you. I am living proof that raw primal girls/woman exist, and, despite being convinced I was the only one in my country, I have found several others. It’s not completely rare, people are awakening
I firstly suggest, to find a raw primal woman, you have to be open minded, as you’d want her to be. If you’re insanely close minded and dogmatic about this lifestyle, as well as fearful that you’ll never find the one, you’re not gonna get anywhere, you’ll only attract what you don’t want.
I’ve also noticed that a lot of raw primal dudes have fucked up views and standards about women, like Epstein level, “I’ve gotta find a super young, perfect stacy, virgin wife, who will completely align with my beliefs and do whatever I say, and let me own her and make her my baby machine,” typa shit. That’s very unrealistic and truly corrupt, women are humans who deserve their own agency, opinions and values, that are just as important as your own.
(if you ever do find a girl who subscribes to that role, you’ll quickly find she either has absolutely no sense of self and personality, or rather, she’s a mossad agent. Up to you if you can live with that
)So if that even slightly reflects your true desires, I’d suggest you evaluate where that comes from within you. And, before you say, “but it’s naytrull” or some goatis bs, evidence suggests that, in our hunter gatherer era, societal structure was matriarchal and relationships were non-monogamous. Non-monogamous through woman having babies with multiple men, as, if you think about it, that would optimise the survival of her children, so they could all be protected and fathered by many.
I do not believe in the same relationship style today. Humans aren’t just baby making flesh vessels who need to survive, but rather souls who unite, to love, as both perfect matches and opposites. Religious, spiritual, or not, relationships are unarguably, a bridge to the divine, an experience of life that transcends the mundane.
To find your match, I believe you need to focus on being an independent and whole unit, aka self actualising and Individualising to an extent. When you rely on finding another to make you feel whole, you’re gonna keep going thru samsara buddy. Stop searching, find the love within you and within your life, then love will naturally find you. Same goes with authenticity and finding the right person for you, you gotta be it before you find it.
Yeah this became a lot deeper than expected, but It just feels right to express and say this all. I am speaking from a place that has seen how the raw primal and incel community can, in some instances, become one in the same. Take what resonates and leave what doesn’t, but don’t let yourself become another pessimistic woman hating chud just because you feel lost and lonely.
Some last things I wanna say, is that your habits have the ability to inspire another, don’t think that just because your girlfriend/romantic interests diet is unhealthy or unaligned with yours, that nothing can be done. My ex boyfriend took me from hating ruminant meat one day, to eating a steak everyday following. Just from him encouraging me to try it, without any pressure or expectation.
So don’t approach it from the “I’m gonna change or convince her”, rather, be the blueprint and let your habits and visible health benefits lead the way first. While also taking small actions, like encouraging her try raw meat or sashimi, or even blue rare steak (bonus points if this is at a fancy dinner you paid for).
I also wanna suggest looking into Duru Bilimlier, she’s introduced many woman to the diet through her social media and community. Framing it as a way to look gorgeous and slim, and experience healing from all sorts of health issues that women suffer from. There are many other influencers who are woman or work with woman, all this kind of content could be shared with your girlfriend, especially if she struggles with the mentioned health issues. Be careful tho as a lot of it is framed as a way to lose weight and increase beauty, you don’t want to suggest you think she needs that.
Hope this spiel is of some value. It’s definitely very valid to want a relationship with another healthy person, that’s for sure a standard of my own, just don’t let it get you too dogmatic and strict. Ultimately, relationships are about love and connection, the addition of beauty and enjoyment to your life, rather than the only source of it. So focus on being healthy, happy and enjoying your life, and you will find someone to join you in that 🫶
@Rhiannon I agree with everything you said. Great reply, there are definetely people that need to hear it. It's completely unrealistic to find someone who fits every single one of their criteria. Also, they forget the most important part of a relationship isn't finding someone who eats certain food, but that you have a strong, deep connection with them. They forget that this is someone you want to spend the rest of your life with. Connection first, then everything else is secondary. If you have a deep connection with someone there is no reason they wouldn't be open to your suggestions, especially if it's done in a respectful, unjudgemental manner, especially with no expectations that she must do what you want.
People get too caught up with what they want and not what they need. And if you do find someone that you can introduce to the primal diet, it gives you something special that you share, as you have brought them to true health, similar to how people imagine meeting the love of their lives through being saved, or maybe thats a reach?
